Going, going. Back to, back to.
(If you know what song that line is from you win*.)
I've been taking college classes off & on for the past couple of years. I'll get a couple of hours under my belt and then take a break, either because I've got too much going on or because financially college is just not an option right now. I've had a lot of ups and downs grade-wise because of my spastic schedule and life not always going the way I've planned.
When I was pregnant with Josh I got my foot in the door in the banking world and managed to climb the ladder, slowly but surely, for about 4 years. I changed banks a couple of times due to opportunities opening up that were a better fit and more along the lines of what I wanted to do. But at the last bank I worked at I was miserable. Beyond miserable actually. I worked with unpleasant people in what should have been a low-stress environment. Things started off well enough but it became obvious, very quickly, that a couple of the people at my branch did NOT like me. That coupled with the fact that two of the women from the corporate office not liking me turned out to be one of the most miserable years of my life.
Please don't misunderstand, I know that no matter where I work I will face obstacles. Not everyone that I work with will be my friend. I've worked long enough to not only understand that but to embrace it. I'm more than capable of keeping my work and personal life separate. That said, it does become harder to do when you're in a small office environment on top of living in a VERY small town.
As I was reaching the end of my rope at my banking job I was approached by a regular customer asking me if I knew anyone that was looking for a job. He described the position and asked me to please get the word out. I left work early that day and drove straight to his office. I spent the following afternoon learning the details of the position and put my two weeks notice in at the bank the very next work day. I can honestly say it was one of the best decisions that I've ever made. I work with the most fantastic people and I know without a doubt that this is where I'm supposed to be right now.
While I love where I am right now, I know that this is not a forever-job. In a couple of years I'll probably have the opportunity to go into real estate sales if I want to, and while I'm definitely soaking up all the information that I can, I'm not sure if that's what I see in my future. I'm not sure if I want to stay in Port A forever. And I'd definitely like to know that I have options elsewhere.
Which leads me to the most awesome news in the history of EVER. My boss pulled me aside yesterday and told me to please not let finances (or a lack thereof) be my reason for not continuing my education. Y'all, my freaking boss offered to pay for me to go back to school. I'm so overwhelmed at his generosity that it makes me want to cry. It's something that I would never in a million years ask for, and normally I would not even imagine letting someone help me this way but he made a serious case.
And now I'm headed back to school.
*My loyalty & love for all time.
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